“Wait, That Means WHAT?! Surprising Customs Around the World” (Copy)
One of the greatest joys of travel is discovering that the world doesn’t always run on “American rules.” From greetings and table manners to everyday expressions, every culture has its own rhythm. What feels completely normal in the United States might raise eyebrows—or even giggles—elsewhere. Also, remember that not everyone speak English. Learning to say, “I don’t speak INSERT LANGUAGE HERE very well,” often helps soften those to speak in English if they can. Respecting their language helps. I’ve experienced it especially in France. We can’t just expect them to speak English.
To help you step into new cultures with confidence (and a smile), here are some fun customs and quirks from around the globe:
👋 Greetings Aren’t Always Handshakes
In the U.S., the handshake is king. But around the world, introductions come in many forms:
France: A kiss on each cheek (sometimes two, sometimes three, depending on the region).
Thailand: The respectful “wai”—palms pressed together with a slight bow.
New Zealand (Māori): The hongi, where foreheads and noses touch.
Middle East: Handshakes may last longer, and sometimes men greet with a kiss on the cheek—but women and men may not shake hands at all depending on cultural norms.
Pro tip: Don’t assume—let your host lead the way!
🖐 Hand Gestures: Same Hands, Different Meanings
That thumbs-up you flash so casually? Careful! Hand gestures aren’t universal:
Thumbs-Up: Friendly in the U.S., but considered offensive in parts of the Middle East, West Africa, and South America.
“OK” Circle (👌): Means “all good” here, but in Brazil or Turkey it’s a rude insult.
Beckoning Finger: In the U.S., we wave someone over with an upward curl of the finger. In the Philippines, that gesture is reserved for calling animals—it’s considered disrespectful to use it on people.
Head Nods: In Bulgaria and parts of Greece, nodding “yes” can actually mean “no,” and shaking your head can mean “yes.” Confusing, but part of the fun!
When in doubt, observe first—you’ll avoid some awkward mix-ups.
💬 Phrases That Don’t Translate
Some everyday American expressions leave travelers scratching their heads:
“Break a leg” – In English, it’s encouragement. In many countries, people will wonder why you’re cursing them!
“It’s a piece of cake” – Most cultures don’t describe “easy” using dessert.
“I’m stuffed” – In the U.S., it means “I’m full.” In the U.K., it can mean you’re in serious trouble.
“How are you?” – Americans often ask this as a casual greeting. In other countries, people may launch into their full life story—because they think you really want to know.
On the flip side, you’ll hear phrases abroad that don’t make sense in English but are totally normal locally. For example:
In Spain, someone might say “Estás como una cabra” (“You’re like a goat”) as a playful way to say you’re a little crazy.
In Germany, being “as cool as a cucumber” doesn’t exist—they’re more likely to say “as cool as a fridge.”
👞 Shoes Off, Hats Off
In many cultures, removing your shoes before entering a home is a sign of respect. This is common in Japan, Korea, Scandinavia, and parts of the Middle East. Similarly, removing hats in churches, mosques, and temples is often required.
Pro tip: Pack a pair of presentable socks—you’ll thank yourself later!
🍽 Dining Table Surprises
Food is love everywhere, but the rules change across borders:
Japan: Don’t stick chopsticks upright in rice—it resembles a funeral offering. Also don’t tip. They will chase you down assuming you left money.
India & Middle East: The left hand is considered unclean, so eat and pass food with the right.
Italy: Cappuccinos are for mornings only—order one after dinner and you’ll stand out instantly.
China: Don’t finish every bite on your plate—it may signal your host didn’t feed you enough!
🕑 Time Is Flexible
In the U.S., “on time” means early. Elsewhere:
Caribbean & South Pacific: “Island time” means things start when they start.
Germany & Switzerland: Punctuality is sacred—being even a few minutes late is considered rude.
Spain & Argentina: Dinner at 9 p.m. or later is completely normal—restaurants may not even open before then!
🙏 Respecting Sacred Spaces
Whether it’s a cathedral in Italy, a mosque in Turkey, or a temple in Thailand, sacred spaces come with traditions:
Cover shoulders and knees.
Remove hats and shoes where required.
Keep voices low, and often no photography is allowed.
These small gestures go a long way in showing respect.
🌟 Everyday Life Quirks
Finally, a few fun ones you might stumble upon:
Argentina: You might be offered mate tea from the same shared cup and straw—it’s about friendship.
Kenya: Handshakes may last longer and include multiple “pumps” or even a finger snap at the end.
France: Lingering at the table after a meal is normal. In fact, rushing off might seem rude.
South Korea: It’s polite to pour drinks for others, but never for yourself.
✈️ Embrace the Surprises
Travel isn’t just about ticking off landmarks—it’s about connecting with people. And the best connections happen when you lean into cultural differences with curiosity, humility, and a smile.
So whether you’re learning a new handshake, sipping tea with strangers, or catching yourself before a thumbs-up—remember, these are the moments that make travel stories worth telling.
After all, the world would be pretty boring if everywhere felt just like home.
